Dating Etiquette

April 2013

Modern technology and the passage of time has taken us far from the rules that our grandparents subscribed to when it came to wading through the dating pool. Parent-approved pair-ups have given way to speed dating, handwritten declarations of love have been replaced by quick text messages, and even long hours on the telephone have evolved into chatting via the Internet.

Regardless of how communication has changed over the years, how relationships are defined, and how the rules of dating have changed, certain points remain true when it comes to meeting new people, embarking on a new relationship, or trying one out for size. Keep these constantly on your mind and make the sometimes-complicated world of dating fun and relatively hassle-free.

Save the important stuff for face-to-face conversations.

Texting and email are convenient ways to catch up, make plans—but not the ideal venue to talk feelings. Break-ups are difficult enough; adding that extra cold-hearted element of doing it over the phone just makes it all the harsher. On the opposite end of the spectrum, moving forward with a relationship is something you’ll want to discuss in person—without body language or being able to read a person’s facial expressions, parts of a conversation can be easily lost or misread between the lines.

Take things with a grain of salt.

Whether you’re fresh off a blind date and are waiting for a second date invite, or are deep into a month-long relationship, it is important not to let yourself be overtaken by emotion. Throw in the foibles that come with modern technology, and it is easy to get caught up in dating drama that you’ll find was not at all necessary after all. No reply after a text message you sent? Don’t fret and just call. Ignored on Facebook chat? There could be a million valid reasons why. Find out why with a clear head.

Take your time.

Quick fixes have become a staple of modern day living. Fast food, fast Internet, instant messaging—these everyday essentials have wired us to expect quick, sometimes premature results. Relationships can sometimes be built in lightning speed, but most of the time, it takes a slow burn to come up with solid decisions and results that make sense over time. Resist the urge to fast track, respect your partner’s pace (and your own), and savor the small moments.

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Trip Tips

March 2013

As the weather heats up and summer soon approaches, families and friends start making plans for a fun-filled break. Whether you’re planning a full-fledged vacation out of the country with the whole brood, or going for a weekend escape with your husband to a secluded beach, it’s important to stay courteous and considerate. Pooling the kids so they don’t cause a raucous in the hotel lobby or being gracious enough to keep quiet in the wee hours of the morning so you don’t disrupt your next-door hostel neighbors is always good practice.

While the summer holidays is a time for letting loose and running free, it’s always a good idea to stick to courtesy so that everyone has a pleasant, hassle-free time.

Make Provisions

Fussy kids can be a problem when long lines in theme parks and whole-day road trips are concerned. Planning ahead, whether you’re taking care of a one-year old or an active nine-year old helps prevent midday meltdowns that can interrupt even the best-laid plans. Toting a Ziploc bag filled with healthy treats, fruit, sandwiches, and even a bottle of water can tame unexpected hunger pangs and help settle down rowdy kids.

Appoint a Go-To Guy

Mixing different personalities while traveling with a group can be a major source of conflict. When there are one too many cooks on a family vacation, delays, mix-ups in plans and itineraries, and accidental slip-ups are inevitable. If you feel that your husband is more adept at dealing with hotel bookings, appoint him as the go-to guy in that department and allow your strengths in logistical planning, driving directions, and other tasks to keep you in charge of those areas. Separating responsbilities is not only efficient, but can tame tempers in tight situations.

Keep them Involved

Reining in the kids during holidays can be a huge, time-consuming task. Sometimes however, the adults don’t give the children as much credit as they deserve, especially when it comes to high-stress situations (consider how vacations are supposed to be hassle-free!). Whether you’re dealing with a 12-year old or a pre-schooler, clue them in on the goings-on, ask for their opinions when it comes to the places you’re visiting, and give them a rundown of rules to keep silence and courtesy for neighbors always at bay. They’ll appreciate your trust and may even work extra hard to help keep the peace throughout your holiday.

The Blue Leaf is a great place to host parties, whether you're looking to entertain corporate clients or throw a get-together for friends and family. We can help you forge new bonds and make new memories, no matter what the occasion. For inquiries, call The Blue Leaf Events Pavilion at 898-BLUE or visit http://www.theblueleaf.com.ph/ for more information.

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The Blue Leaf Events Pavilion • 632 8872175 • 632 8875687 • inquiries@theblueleaf.com.ph

100 Park Avenue, McKinley Hill Village,Fort Bonifacio, Taguig City.