June 2011
Interacting closely with people can oftentimes put us in tricky situations. Hearing somebody’s very personal news can elicit reactions that may put us on the spot, and figuring out what to say after a sensitive topic is brought up can certainly be a challenge. With close friends, it may be easier to come up with a sincere and genuine response, but acquaintances, colleagues, and those can be more difficult to gauge.
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Consider these go-to replies whenever delicate subjects arise:
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Someone marries or becomes engaged.
“What great news!” Greet the person with sincerity and show genuine interest in his or her plans; but stop yourself before doling out any marriage advice or asking too many questions about the engagement. Avoid dishing out any stories about marriages gone sour, and stick to happier news.
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Someone is pregnant.
Be sincerely happy but do not pry. Try not to cross the line and give out medical opinions (especially if you are not a doctor). Avoid bringing up labor horror stories.
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Someone miscarries.
“I’m sorry.” Stick to how sorry you are about the situation and do not try to make her feel better by saying that everything happened for the best or that it was God’s plan. Avoid going into detail—you might accidentally say something that could imply the miscarriage came about because of something the mother did or didn’t do.
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Someone separates or divorces.
If you know that there is regret on the person’s part about what just happened, “I’m sorry” will suffice. It is difficult to figure out the circumstances behind a separation, especially if details are sparingly give—therefore saying “Thank you for telling me” or “I wish you the best” is a good enough response.
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Someone is sick.
In this case, actions will speak louder than words. Offer assistance in any way you can—help shop for groceries, visit, or volunteer.
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Someone passes away.
Condolences are enough during a situation like this—“I’m so sorry” or “I’m thinking of you” are simple and eloquent and usually say more than any other contrived response can.
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